It's not too late to ship before Christmas....

We know this time can be hectic for everyone, but it can be especially difficult for those high risk moms on bed rest during this busy time of the year. Bebe Tresor, Inc. is all about improving an expectant mom's chance of having a healthy newborn baby and stress can negatively impact the pregnancy. So let me just give a few tips to help during these last few days before the Christmas Holiday.

This coming Monday December 17, 2012 is the official free shipping day. Yes, it is true. The participating retailers agree to have one day of no shipping fees and the ability to deliver by Christmas. If you are are expecting a baby or even if you already are a parent, we all can use a bit of savings every now and then. Go to www.freeshippingday.com to see the list of 1,581 participating merchants on the website. You can sign up to get an email reminder on Free Shipping Day.

Also available for avid readers, there is a free download offer of "The Complete Sherlock Holmes" through Amazon.com click this link while it is still available for the free offer.  http://www.amazon.com/The-Complete-Sherlock-Holmes-ebook/dp/B00AHE20W0/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1355630027&sr=1-1&keywords=sherlock+holmes.

For those kids who have the LeapPad, there is a great deal found on Amazon.com on selected ebooks. They are regularly $19.99 on sale now for $5.99 - $9.59 which is a steal! Click for offer:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Dtoys-and-games&field-keywords=leappad%20ebook&sprefix=leappad+eb%2Ctoys-and-games&rh=n:165793011%2Ck%3Aleappad%20ebook

Also found on Amazon.com is a deal for the Nerf N-Strike Reyven which is on sale now for $13.97 which was regularly $39.99. It's pretty cool with the glow-in-the-dark darts! Click for offer:
http://www.amazon.com/Nerf-34069-N-Strike-Rayven/dp/B0060Y240O/?tag=dealnewscom&m=ATVPDKIKX0DER

Finally, one cute deal I found was for a Lalaloopsy Doll Value Bundle for Scarlet Red Riding Hood. The original price at Walmart was for $47.94 and is now available for $17.00. Click for offer:
http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=22437366&findingMethod=rr#ProductDetail

So I help these shopping tips and deals help to decrease the stress during the Holidays. Happy Stress Free Shopping =)

Discussing Tragedies with your child

It is unbearable to think of the tragic events that have occurred today in Newtown, CT. The fact that innocent children as young as 5 years old have lost their lives today, is heart wrenching. In a world already plagued by incurable diseases seems to be enough death and dying without the aid of violence. As moms, expectant parents, and those planning on having children, it can be difficult to think about raising a child in a world of such violence. Sometimes all we can do is keep faith that there is a higher power out there that has a plan for all of us that we can not comprehend. The tragic loss of a child is unimaginable and when it happens, it's like a piece of you has died along with that child. We pray for all those families affected by the shooting at Sandy Hook. May the tears that they shed wash away their pain and may their love give them the strength to cope during this difficult time.

During difficult times such as this, we struggle to find the best way to discuss violent events with our children. Here is an article from Cook Children's that was shared with me advising how to explain such catastrophes with our children.

 

Watching tragedies with your child The frightening footage of school shootings in Connecticut is difficult to watch for even the most hardened adult. So how do you talk to your child about catastrophes such as this? Joy Crabtree, Psy.D, a licensed psychologist for Cook Children’s Behavioral Health in Southlake, said parents must set the example for their children to follow. Dr. Crabtree encourages a discussion of the events, but only if their young children have learned about the incident elsewhere. If they haven’t heard about it, don’t share information with them. If they already know about it, answer their questions and most importantly, reassure them. Crabtree said that in the case of the school shooting in Connecticut, parents need to think through whether their child can handle any news about it at all. Depending on their age and maturity level, it might be best to shield children from the news entirely. “Since we are talking about a violence issue, and graphic violence that was targeted toward children, I don’t know that kids, certainly elementary age children, need to see any news or footage about it at all,” Crabtree said. “Young children were involved and that makes it even more difficult for them to process. Many children may be very frightened by this news and be scared something similar could happen at their own school. If they have heard about it, take as much time as needed to sit down with them and have a discussion/answer session, providing reassurance and support.” For older children, such as middle school and high school, Crabtree encourages parents to again determine if their child is mature enough to handle the information. If parents feel they can handle it, use the DVR or TiVo as your friend during the news. Watch it with your child and pause the TV to answer questions. Gauge your child’s emotions and turn the TV off if your child becomes too emotional or the news is too intense. “Parents have to stay calm and cannot be glued to the TV,” Crabtree said. “Again, if you have an elementary-aged child, and they haven’t learned the news, there’s certainly no reason to sit down with them and show them the story. There’s no need to cause fear in your children. By the time children are 7 or 8 years old, they can distinguish fact from fiction and will understand the consequences of what they are watching. Answer their questions, but only their questions. There’s no need to add more information that may scare them even more.” Children may not understand the distance of the events on TV, make sure to calm their fears and let them know they are safe. If they continue to be fearful of their own safety, it may be helpful to get out a map and show them how far away they are from the incident that happened today. “This news could be very scary to many children,” said Crabtree. “Parents need to realize this could really raise anxiety levels. This was in a small town. This was an elementary school. They may feel that if it could happen there, it could happen anywhere. I can’t stress enough the importance of just being there for your child right now to support them. Again, for younger children, only discuss it if they are already aware of the situation.” Teens may have more questions and concerns because they can find information on the Web and discuss it with their friends at school. They may wonder why something like this happens. Share with your child your own fears and anxieties about the events. Let them know it’s okay to feel scared or frustrated, but it cannot overtake them. Also, share with them ways that they may help by donating monetarily or giving blood in some instances. Sometimes when tragedy happens it helps them to work through their anxiety by becoming active and helping others. Listen to your teen, or older child, regarding their fears and concerns. How an adult manages their own feelings can also provide a positive example for them. Crabtree advises parents to watch to see if their children restrict activity, for instance if they don’t want to go to school or to the playground because it is too far away from home, or simply because they are afraid. Also notice if your child becomes withdrawn or more clingy than usual, and constantly wants to sleep in your bed. “It is common for children to have a general fear, but if you see an overwhelming fear, it’s important to talk to their pediatrician,” Crabtree said. “If it continues to be a concern, then it may be time to get professional help.” Related Links Leave comments and discuss with Cook Children's School violence How to talk to your child about the news School violence and the news